Iyanla “Fix My Life” Vanzant Thinks I’m Like This Because My Mom’s A Hoe with a line from Dionne Brand
The great interrogation room is the stanza. There is the mother outside
the poem— forever changing the curtains to better escape the morning light— and the one
here who is knocking. The one who steps inside. If she
is not the same, does it matter? If she is a meter of the person she once was, don’t her wrists still look divine shackled, the silver
stuttering: XX | XX—? O Memoir Dearest, if I am the good cop, then I will ask: won’t you
give me everything? If the bad cop, then I will say: give me everything. If God, then I give
you this memory: when I first heard the word ineffable I heard inevitable. I mistook a silence
so extreme it stood, like you, outside the door of language for a certainty; isn’t need the miner,
plumed and singing, of invention? This was always going to be hard. That I have a face only
a mapmaker could love doesn’t mean I’m heartless. After all, you and I are like murmur, like
doubter. No. Like maker, like daydreamer. No. Like mourner,
like deerstalker. No— O Holy Myrrh, what have I done to myself?